Better Boundaries: Loving An Addict Without Losing Yourself
- jbhoward429
- Mar 17
- 2 min read
A Free Guide to Setting Better Boundaries That Actually Work

Have you ever felt completely drained, unsure of where to draw the line with your addicted loved one?
If so, you’re not alone. Loving someone in addiction is one of the hardest, most heartbreaking journeys—one filled with worry, frustration, and a constant battle between wanting to help and needing to protect yourself.
You may have asked yourself:
“How do I support them without enabling?”
“Where do I draw the line between helping and hurting?”
“Is it okay to say ‘no’ without feeling guilty?”
The answer? Boundaries.
Boundaries Are an Act of Love
Many people think of boundaries as shutting someone out, but healthy boundaries actually protect relationships. They allow you to love from a place of strength, not exhaustion. Boundaries aren’t about controlling your loved one—they’re about choosing how you will respond in a way that honors both God and your own well-being.
When you set boundaries, you’re not giving up on your loved one. You’re simply refusing to lose yourself in their struggle.
“The Lord gives strength to His people; the Lord blesses His people with peace.” – Psalm 29:11
A Free Resource to Help You Set Boundaries with Confidence
I know how hard this is, which is why I created the Better Boundaries Workbook—a free, faith-based guide designed to help you set loving, clear, and God-honoring boundaries with confidence.
What You’ll Find Inside:
✅ Practical boundary-setting examples – so you know exactly what to say and do
✅ Step-by-step guidance on communicating your boundaries with confidence
✅ A simple framework for creating boundaries that protect your peace without shutting out your loved one
✅ Biblical encouragement to strengthen your heart and remind you that boundaries are an act of love
Get Your Free Copy Today!
If you’re ready to stop feeling guilty, take control of your peace, and love your addicted loved one without losing yourself, this workbook is for you.
📩 Sign up now to receive your FREE copy: www.alovelikehis.com/betterboundaries
You are not alone in this journey. I pray this resource blesses and equips you with the strength and clarity you need. God is with you, and you are worthy of peace. 💙
With love & encouragement,
Julie Bonham Howard
A Love Like His Media
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